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PERSONAL MENTORING PROGRAM
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I am too busy to trading for myself to be giving
seminars and courses and all the rest of it, but I do take on the occasional
student, for one to one mentoring, and in a unique way. Please write to
me (or ICQ me) telling me about yourself, where you are at, how you have
arrived at that point, where you want to go, and how and why you believe
a relationship with me could help you. Then I can consider whether or
not I believe I am the right Mentor for you and provide you with more
details about how my personal mentoring scheme works.
If we decide
after that to go forwards, we would talk on the telephone before formalising
the next step, and discuss frequent questions and answers, as well as
my terms and conditions. You can also contact me on my ICQ number
175988787. (You can download for free this icqlite communication package
- see www.icq.com). I
use this to talk each day to my students online. You can send me a message
on that, even if I am off-line at the time. |
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Mentoring,
not necessarily from me, can help anyone who could relate to elements
of the following types of novice trader: -
The lack of emotional involvement with the market by only paper trading
explains why so many individuals can win “competitions” with notional money,
but can never make a pound from real trading. Almost none of these individuals
ever go forwards into actual trading, as they become hobbyists. This is
often because they are afraid of success. The psychology behind this is
that success has the power to change lives, and remove the individual from
the routines and certainties of their humdrum daily lives which, although
trapping them in the rat race, still provides them with a feeling of emotional
security, without which they are unable to feel safe. This is why so many
lottery jackpot winners crack up, and why such a small percentage of the
entire population take the plunge to work for themselves. Mentoring can
help the remaining minority of those who are willing to buck the trend to
cross a bridge into "becoming alive" from previously "just
existing".
THE ACTIVE NOVICE TRADER. Novices who have been actively trading are of a different mould, because they realise that the only way to make money and design their own life is to stop being someone else's employee, and start working for themselves. And they get on with it. However, without the right method, mindset and emotional make up, they find themselves frustrated by a mixture of some success and some failure which nets out to an overall loss or a "going nowhere" scenario ("break even traders"). They become too close to the problem and too remote from the solution. Struggling
to understand why they are not succeeding, they reach a point of self torment
from which only mentoring can help them escape the fog, emerge to view clear
blue sky, and avoid "washout". Washout is where they themselves
end up feeling physically, emotionally and mentally washed out and, finally,
financially washed out, without a second chance available.
THE ACADEMIC NOVICE TRADER.
Then there are those who, with great commitment, embark on an endless overly
academic study of market movements, as though they are sitting their school
exams. They find themselves encouraged by their observations of moneymaking
opportunities yet are unable to find either a consistently reliable technique,
or the confidence to act upon them and bag the booty.
These people are usually highly intelligent individuals. However, what has
happened here is that they have approached the market with a rigid belief
that reading Stockmarket movements is a pure scientific\mathematical affair.
This is wrong, for analysing markets is a science, but trading them is an
art! It was Einstein who said that imagination was greater than knowledge,
and without imagination the art part of trading cannot be mastered. Everyone
is born with imagination, but it has gradually been beaten out of him or
her by a Society system that likes to produce uniform controllable outlooks,
instead of true individuals.
What is needed is a "re-activation" of "their third eye";
to awaken that heightened state of awareness that has laid dormant for many
years. Frequently, academic novice traders will convince themselves they
have found a scientific formula for success, but then proceed to lose all
their money, before ending up harbouring regrets which frequently lead to
depression and trading self-sabotage.
THE NERVOUS NOVICE TRADER.
Most nervous novice traders I have encountered are also highly intelligent
people. Fear of risk is usually the reason why they are often reduced to
a nervous wreck, and especially so where they have no training in how risk
is something not to be feared, but to be managed. They will continuously
find every reason under the sun why they cannot get on and make trades,
they are basically waiting for "certainty" to come along, and
of course it never does.
All successful traders are in control of their emotions, and have a sense
of proportion in regard to real risk versus perceived risk. If your emotions
are controlling your trading, then you are simply not going to succeed.
The person with the intelligence needed to become a heart surgeon is not
going to do well in the operating theatre if his or her hands are shaking.
You see, the only cure for someone who is afraid to fly - is to fly! But
the confidence to fly cannot come from climbing into some old single engine
rust bucket controlled by a blind pilot.
An experienced hand is needed to guide this trader through the dark, and
safely out into the light. Self-confidence is the quality here which needs
to be motivated, and a series of excercises to develop a relaxed emotional
approach to trading.
THE IMPATIENT NOVICE TRADER.
Becoming efficient enough to make a living from trading is something
comparable to learning how to drive again, insofar as it is one thing
to learn how to steer the car, another to change gear, another to keep
your eye on the road and analyse the road signs, other traffic etc.,
but quite another to concentrate on all of them at the same time. Now
that you can drive, it all seems very straightforward, but when you
were first learning, it needed time, study, practise and learning from
mistakes. You could have achieved this on your own, eventually, but
it would have been a lot quicker to have had some lessons from a driving
instructor. However, there are many who have passed their driving test
who are still lousy drivers, and some of them are dangerous drivers.
In trading, these people trade recklessly, without knowing why they have
entered a trade, other than some pie-eyed theory which they have either
been sold, or have concocted from a set of beliefs that have no foundation.
They are impatient to earn money, but have not found the time or inclination
to learn how to do so first.
THE LOTTERY NOVICE TRADER.
Millions of individuals are comfortable to play the lottery because a £1
ticket is no risk, and a jackpot win is a huge reward. The fact that the
odds of such a win are poorer than the odds of being struck by a meteorite
does not seem to put them off. There is nothing really wrong with that,
until this individual brings that philosophy into the trading arena.
All too often, I encounter the person who dogmatically believes he or
she can earn a huge annual income by investing large amounts of money
into a trading desk but perhaps only a hundred pounds or so into their
trading fund. You don't need a huge amount to get started, but it is
important not to arrange things the wrong way around, unless you are
a long-term investor who does not need to earn a living from trading.
These people are invariably so risk-averse that they make Scrooge look like
a gambler. Mentoring teaches you the correct structure of your business,
if you wish to have a real prospect of succeeding as a Trader, by lowering
sights at the jackpot and increasing the stake in proportion to obtainable
reward or, in other words, how to use money to make money, which is the
only way to do it properly. A typical lottery novice trader will say that he or she can only afford a tiny amount to trade with, and is unwilling to save up enough money to trade properly, or is unwilling to draw cash against his assets to have a sensible amount to work with.
He or she wants all the big annual income that can come from trading, but
virtually none of the risk. He or she will always find "reasons"
why, one day, they will trade properly, but that day never actually comes.
What mentoring can do for this person is to jerk them into reality, and
teach them the difference between having a dream which is always going to
be a dream, and doing what is necessary to make that dream come true.
THE FRUSTRATED NOVICE TRADER.
Frustration is one of the many types of emotion which can suffocate even
the best efforts at efficient trading. The frustrated novice trader is usually
an individual who understands and agrees with everything I have said in
the preceding paragraphs, and has already attended courses, seminars, training
etc., but has returned to his or her trading desk to find, quite simply,
that what they have been taught, or sold, just does not work.
This person is a well meaning, well-intentioned, intelligent, diligent and
determined individual who is to be admired for effort and tenacity. They
will possess magnificent personal characteristics such as perseverance,
courage and the will to succeed Unfortunately, they are losing money hand
over fist, and have been slow to accept that the methodology they have been
taught or sold is balderdash. This makes them feel bad because their ego
is bruised by feeling duped. It is difficult for them to want to pay a Mentor
a fee, as they feel they have already paid enough money out to others, and
they want any new Mentors to put everything right, at their expense, while
the bad guys live in the luxury they have obtained by duping the novice
with their Moses like charisma and fancy marketing ploys.
In addition to this, the Mentor has the hard task of trying to undo what
they have learned before being able to teach them what they should be learning.
Nonetheless, this kind of person, IF they can let go of the rubbish they
have learned, is likely to move quite quickly to the state of successful
trader after mentoring.
By consistently trading badly, they have at least mastered consistency.
Reversing the flaws in their approach leads them to consistently trading
efficiently instead. However, they have to learn to "slow down"
as their frustration will have brought them to the end of their tether,
and they will be in too much of a hurry to make good the failure they have
so far experienced. They need to "write off" their bad experience
to date (like a bad trade) and move on. NOTHING they have learned, however
useless, is wasted, for they have learned many ways of how NOT to trade.
THE TECHNICAL NOVICE TRADER.
It is a common error on the part of "technical" novice traders
to presume that a technical or mechanical method alone is all that is required
to profit from daily price movements in a financial instrument. Mentoring
can teach them that it is not the method which needs to be mechanical, but
the actual physical execution of trades.
A technical method must actually be dynamic in nature, to be able to bend
with the variable flow of price movement. Mentoring steers you towards an
appropriate mindset to achieve that, and teaches you to separate one from
the other, yet employ both at the same time.
THE FUNDAMENTAL NOVICE TRADER.
The "fundamental" novice trader is a learned and thinking individual
who is not too lazy to study the papers, the accounts, and the commentaries
on individual company shares and their parent Indices.
The error they pursue is a failure to distinguish between the very different
concepts of trading and investment. Clearly, if you are going to commit
significant amounts of your money for a very long time into the shares of
a company, or its parent Index, you want to know about fundamental elements
such as the balance sheet, earnings per share, percentage of yield, make
up of Directorships and so on. However, this is of no use whatever to the
short term trader, let alone the daytrader. They are different goals which
rely on different approaches.
The fundamental novice trader is not a trader at all, but an investor in
disguise. Mentoring can help them find which camp they belong to, and help
them transform from one to the other, if they want to. However, these two
sides of the coin are not mutually exclusive. This is because there is no
reason at all why you cannot earn your living from trading, and then move
excess income into long term investment.
THE TOMORROW NOVICE TRADER.
The tomorrow novice trader is an individual always of substantial ability,
but is in a combined state of personal denial and laziness. This is because
he or she will already be earning a living from something, perhaps a job
or a small business, but is aware, whether instinctively or factually that
"the writing is on the wall". I.e. He or she believes that what
brings in the bacon at the moment is, at some stage in the near future,
very likely to come to an end, and an escape plan is needed.
The idea of trading for a living provides a perfect idea, a perfect plan
for what is to be the route to take after the current income reaches an
end. Unfortunately, this individual is just dreaming, for he or she is always
finding an excuse why he cannot do something today instead of why he can.
He or she belongs to that fraternity who follow the maxim of "why put
something off until tomorrow, when it can be put off forever".
He or she is generally miserly in nature, and on the one hand unwilling
to leave the present job or business until its gravestone is ready, and
is unwilling to dive into trading for a living unless or until the "certainty
of success" and the "absence of financial risk" comes along,
in a package topped off with a blue ribbon and a certificate of guarantee.
This person expects the Mentor to be available on the National Health Service,
and wants a guarantee of eternal financial life before laying out a penny.
THE GAMBLER NOVICE TRADER.
The gambler novice trader is a gambler. So far, his gambling on trades has
lost, lost and lost again.
He or she knows that there is a difference between gambling and trading,
because the latter measures probability, whereas the former ignores it.
The gambler is, by nature, a fatalist. This is because it is much more comfortable
and easy to transfer responsibility to the gods than to take it on board
and be responsible for the outcome of reckless trading.
Occasionally, the gambler will get lucky, and make a large sum. This however
is always followed by an even larger loss.
However, he or she actually has some very special qualities, including courage,
no fear of risk, and active imagination. Indeed, the gambler has many of
the qualities of a good trader except one; he or she has no decent method
or self-discipline. Mentoring can change that, and make the best of the
good qualities and help eliminate the poor ones, to turn this individual
into one of the most efficient and successful traders possible. However,
this is only if the individual is prepared to listen and be taught.
THE BLAME EVERYONE ELSE NOVICE TRADER.
The blame everyone else novice trader is an individual with great analytical
ability, and considerable natural ability to approach tasks in a very mechanical
fashion. He or she is quite proud of their emotional detachment from others,
and is unlikely to relate either to the pain or problems of others, and
not ever to express his or her own emotions.
For them, trading is a black and white affair, which could work, but doesn't,
because there is a fault with the teacher, the method or the operation,
it can never be the fault of him or her. This person has a very nice side
to them, but you have to discover it and draw it out, for it will not be
willingly offered. They have ALL the innate ability and intelligence to
be an awesome trader, but their cold manner and lack of warmth and imagination
causes them to fail to see the methodology, and they find reasons why they
can make no money this way because everyone they talk to is selling them
a white elephant.
Invariably, this person feels unloved in their personal life, unrecognised
for their superior intelligence, and unconvinced that anything less than
the holy grail itself can justify them taking risks by trading for a living.
Paradoxically however, they state that it is their absolute mission to become
a trader. Mentoring these people does not require the teaching of the elements of good trading, because until they are made to feel better about themselves in a personal way, they will just deny it works and blame everyone else. However, make no bones about it, if they can be brought around to a different mindset, they make for awesome mechanical traders who would be hard to beat even by the best. Mentoring here starts with a battle with the mindset, and if it is won, we are talking star quality trader, but if it is lost, then so is the teaching. |
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Personal Mentoring is a one to one relationship, based on one of the oldest forms of human development, which can save years of learning the hard way. Webster’s New collegiate Dictionary, 1979, Interviews of General Population, 1993A, describes a mentoring relationship as one which can take on differing aspects for different students, from role model, confidante, nurturer, guidance and wisdom provider, partner, friend, helper, guru, tutor, coach, trusted counselor and teacher. Courage, commitment and firm truth are what is brought to each mentoring relationship. The same level of courage and truth must also come from the student. There are some good Mentors out there, who instead of trying to sell you things, will concentrate on helping you become skillful in the half science\half art of short term trading and daytrading. The ultimate goal is to avoid ending up, as most do, in the Traders' Graveyard and, instead, become empowered not with confidence in the Mentor, but in yourself. |
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